jazzbo Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 14 minutes ago, mjazzg said: Pleased to hear that you've got to the point where you feel the address is ready. I wish you well in its delivery at the weekend. Thanks. I'm glad to be at this point and hope to be beyond soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HutchFan Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 12 minutes ago, mjazzg said: Pleased to hear that you've got to the point where you feel the address is ready. I wish you well in its delivery at the weekend. Yes indeed. I'm sure you'll do a great job speaking about your father. NP: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzbo Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 I'm just hoping I can get through it without breaking down even slightly. It's been a very emotional month, and there's going to be a lot of people present. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjazzg Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 14 minutes ago, jazzbo said: I'm just hoping I can get through it without breaking down even slightly. It's been a very emotional month, and there's going to be a lot of people present. But even if you do break down it will be an honest and heartfelt reaction. I gave the address at my younger sister's funeral (my parents were too distraught to even think about doing it) and it was very difficult but I'm glad I was able to. I broke down at the end for a moment or two, no-one cared. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rabshakeh Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 Duke Ellington and Ray Brown – This One's For Blanton (Pablo, 1975) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peter Friedman Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzbo Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 1 hour ago, mjazzg said: But even if you do break down it will be an honest and heartfelt reaction. I gave the address at my younger sister's funeral (my parents were too distraught to even think about doing it) and it was very difficult but I'm glad I was able to. I broke down at the end for a moment or two, no-one cared. Yes I know. The bar is high for me. My Dad won a national speech making contest when he was 18 which partially funded his first few years of college. And he was a fantastic writer and deliverer of sermons. And he always took pride in how well I would make readings at a service or speak in public etc. So. . . I want to do this flawlessly, and knows that it will be okay if I don't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rabshakeh Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 1 minute ago, jazzbo said: Yes I know. The bar is high for me. My Dad won a national speech making contest when he was 18 which partially funded his first few years of college. And he was a fantastic writer and deliverer of sermons. And he always took pride in how well I would make readings at a service or speak in public etc. So. . . I want to do this flawlessly, and knows that it will be okay if I don't. Wishing you all the best with it on Saturday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzcorner Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 (edited) 1 hour ago, HutchFan said: Edited June 8, 2022 by jazzcorner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzbo Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 (edited) 22 minutes ago, Rabshakeh said: Wishing you all the best with it on Saturday. Thanks. Now playing Hank Mobley "Soul Station" Audio Wave XRCD Edited June 8, 2022 by jazzbo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HutchFan Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 Now: Earlier: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Tapscott Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 2 hours ago, Rabshakeh said: Duke Ellington and Ray Brown – This One's For Blanton (Pablo, 1975) Now: 1 hour ago, jazzbo said: Yes I know. The bar is high for me. My Dad won a national speech making contest when he was 18 which partially funded his first few years of college. And he was a fantastic writer and deliverer of sermons. And he always took pride in how well I would make readings at a service or speak in public etc. So. . . I want to do this flawlessly, and knows that it will be okay if I don't. Say it out loud to yourself a few times either by yourself or to your wife before delivering it in public. It helps with the emotions. You sort of deal with them ahead of time in the more private renderings. At least I find that for myself. I have to speak at my mother's funeral service in a couple of weeks; in fact I am the main speaker, and I'm certainly going to follow my own advice here. All the best. You'll do well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzbo Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 Oh I do that each time I have to . . . and it does help. Sorry to read about your Mom, keep thinking of the good times and best of luck with your service. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JSngry Posted June 8, 2022 Author Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 I volunteered to play "Amazing Grace" at my mom's funeral. The leadup to doing it almost killed me (and almost literally....blood pressure and pulse just trunning wild). But the moment I began to play, it all went away, because it was from the heart, and that's something I can do. So just keep your heart open. It'll all be all good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjazzg Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 I was able to slip into the church before my sister's funeral and read part of the address to an empty space, it really helped come the real thing a couple of hours later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peter Friedman Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rabshakeh Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 Ornette Coleman – Tomorrow Is The Question! (Contemporary, 1959) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HutchFan Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rabshakeh Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 Just now, HutchFan said: What's this? Is it good? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HutchFan Posted June 8, 2022 Report Share Posted June 8, 2022 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Rabshakeh said: What's this? Is it good? Yes. Very good! Probably my favorite Kenny Burrell from the 80s. with Ron Carter & DeJohnette. No pianist, so it has a nice open feel. For instance: Edited June 8, 2022 by HutchFan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gheorghe Posted June 9, 2022 Report Share Posted June 9, 2022 15 hours ago, HutchFan said: I love it, and sometimes I listened to those three "Sky" "Filles" and "Silent Way" and of course Bitches Brew one after the other. Such a great evolution. But I still wonder why "We Want Miles" as a great live album when Miles still played "jazz" and not "pop" is not in your "Jazz of the 80´s".... 8 hours ago, HutchFan said: Somehow I have the impression Grover Washington "came and went"..... In the early 80´s DB reported he shared stage with Sonny Rollins (Grover on soprano of course and I remember the commentary "or would you like to face Sonny Rollins on stage with a tenor ?)..... Someone sometimes bought me an album under his own name, it was nice easy music, but something like "background music" as it seemed to me. Nothing challenging..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soulpope Posted June 9, 2022 Report Share Posted June 9, 2022 11 hours ago, jazzbo said: Yes I know. The bar is high for me. My Dad won a national speech making contest when he was 18 which partially funded his first few years of college. And he was a fantastic writer and deliverer of sermons. And he always took pride in how well I would make readings at a service or speak in public etc. So. . . I want to do this flawlessly, and knows that it will be okay if I don't. You'be been there for your father during lifetime so nothing more to be proved .... obviously easier said than done, so all the best for the festivity .... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EKE BBB Posted June 9, 2022 Report Share Posted June 9, 2022 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soulpope Posted June 9, 2022 Report Share Posted June 9, 2022 46 minutes ago, EKE BBB said: Classic William Claxton photography .... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BillF Posted June 9, 2022 Report Share Posted June 9, 2022 13 hours ago, jazzcorner said: 16 hours ago, jazzbo said: 13 hours ago, jazzbo said: 11 hours ago, John Tapscott said: 11 hours ago, Rabshakeh said: 1 hour ago, EKE BBB said: Now playing: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.