My dad passed away today...

[connoisseur series500]

Wow, just came upon this thread. Sad to hear the news. Your father (and mother) were too young to go. Well, maybe that's not the right way to look at it. We go when we go; but still....

Stay strong and recognize you have a good family and stable of friends. Damnit though, that news sucks. Oh well.

[danasgoodstuff]

Jim,

My deepest sympathies, we all have to face this if we live long enough, but still... I'm 53 and thankful my 6 year old still has all 4 grandparents. I hope you can take some somfort in what certainly sounds like a great relationship with your dad.

Dana

[Guest Bill Barton]

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Jim.

[Kalo]

So sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man.

[Big Al]

My prayers and condolences are with you, my friend.

[robviti]

i only discovered this thread just now. i am very sorry for your loss jim. i will keep a special thought for you and your family as you mourn this special man's passing.

[Alison]

I thought I should share a thought or two about my father-in-law. He was an amazing man and I clearly remember the first day I met him. At that time he was still in a state of recovery after Jim's mom's death. Within the last 7 years he proved himself as an exceptionally attentive man to his entire family and friends. He always gave advice, and the kind one wants to get. I was so blessed to have him in my life and in Zora's life. I am very saddened that she won't even remember how much she loved him and their time together.

Jim and his dad are very similar. Beyond their musical interests and physical attributes, they both have a kindness and selflessness that I rarely see (to that extent) in others. I will miss him terribly. I understand the days, months, and years will be rough...to say the least. No one can prepare themselves for this loss. I pray Jim will be able to find comfort in his family and friends.

Thank you all for the kind words. This community means so much to Jim and will help him get through this time.

Alison

[Christiern]

Alison, you are a gem.

[michel1969]

Sincere condolences to you and family.

[zen archer]

Very sorry for your loss Jim ,my prayers and condolences are with you.

[Peter Johnson]

I just don't even know what to say. All my best to you, Jim, and the rest of your family.

[Quincy]

I just got back from visiting my folks 2000 miles away. Mom has had Alzheimer's for years but this was the first time I sensed my Dad's mortality and recognized that you just never know...

I'm truly sorry for your & your family's loss and my deepest sympathies.

[king ubu]

I'm very sorry to hear this, Jim, my sincere condolences.

[Tom 1960]

Jim, my condolences to you and your family. I lost my dad 6 weeks ago on Monday and while I miss him terribly, he's in a much better place. Please take comfort from the many memories you shared. Sounds like he was great man.

[ejp626]

Very sorry to hear this, but do celebrate the bond you had with him and the time you spent together.

My dad told me last week he was going in for surgery. It went well, but I am still going to book a flight next month to go see him.

[Ron S]

Jim and Alison, we were so sorry to hear about this. I know how close you were to Jim's dad, and what a positive influence he was in your lives. Our thoughts are with you.

[jazzypaul]

I am very sorry, Jim.

[EKE BBB]

My sincerest condolences, Jim.

[johnlitweiler]

Jim, you and your family have my sympathy this week. John

[CJ Shearn]

RIP. I know you guys were real close. If you ever wanna talk about it, email me

[clifford_thornton]

Very sorry to hear this.

May he rest in peace.

My heart goes out to you and all your family.

Edited May 13, 2008 by clifford_thornton

[JohnJ]

Rather late, but just wanted to say that I am very sorry for your loss. You have my deepest condolences.

[Robert J]

Jim, my sincere condolences.

you were close to your dad and that's what is important to remember. I know so many people who wished they could go back and make a connection. You had that - the best gift.

[Matt]

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.

Try to remember better times and take it day by day.

[chris olivarez]

Jim-Greg left word about this on the Blindman forum. I'm so sorry. I lost my dad a few years back and I wish we were as close as you and your dad. Take care of yourself ok. Peace.