AndrewHill Posted December 8, 2007 Report Posted December 8, 2007 (edited) mikelz777 said: Holy Ghost said: As long as its innocent and nothing serious, then a little flirting here and there is ok. I would contend that no flirting is "innocent". Rationalizing it by not acting on it is most likely to be of little comfort to the other's spouse. I don't know if I completely agree-it really boils down to your intentions and if your intentions are just to have a little bit of harmless fun, then I don't see the problem with that. But as Aggie said earlier, and I agree with him, it all depends on the couple and how comfortable they are with it. Edited December 8, 2007 by Holy Ghost Quote
Tom Storer Posted December 8, 2007 Report Posted December 8, 2007 I think we need to define "flirt". If flirting just means to playfully demonstrate that you find someone attractive and wouldn't mind them finding you attractive, without any intention to follow through, then yes, I flirt sometimes. If I ever got the sense that the other person thought I was seriously hitting on them, I would stop. My wife doesn't hesitate to harmlessly flirt, either. Sometimes we end up making each other jealous this way, and that's not necessarily a bad thing either, since it can lead to memorable reconciliations. Flirting can help you remember not to take each other for granted! Quote
RDK Posted December 8, 2007 Report Posted December 8, 2007 Chuck Nessa said: RDK said: I can only wish that someone would flirt with me! What you willing to pay? I can be convinced if the number is "right". Hmmm. Does tapping one's foot in a bathroom stall count as "flirting?" Quote
AndrewHill Posted December 9, 2007 Report Posted December 9, 2007 RDK said: Chuck Nessa said: RDK said: I can only wish that someone would flirt with me! What you willing to pay? I can be convinced if the number is "right". Hmmm. Does tapping one's foot in a bathroom stall count as "flirting?" Quote
AndrewHill Posted December 9, 2007 Report Posted December 9, 2007 Tom Storer said: I think we need to define "flirt". If flirting just means to playfully demonstrate that you find someone attractive and wouldn't mind them finding you attractive, without any intention to follow through, then yes, I flirt sometimes. If I ever got the sense that the other person thought I was seriously hitting on them, I would stop. My wife doesn't hesitate to harmlessly flirt, either. Sometimes we end up making each other jealous this way, and that's not necessarily a bad thing either, since it can lead to memorable reconciliations. Flirting can help you remember not to take each other for granted! Quote
Joe G Posted December 9, 2007 Report Posted December 9, 2007 Tom Storer said: I think we need to define "flirt". Please do. It may turn out that I've flirted w/ Chuck's daughter. Quote
rachel Posted December 9, 2007 Report Posted December 9, 2007 and I'm pretty sure I've flirted with Chuck. Quote
Joe G Posted December 9, 2007 Report Posted December 9, 2007 Best Follow-Up Response of the Week!!! Quote
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