I don't consider the majority to be unlistenable either (though five or six discs are). And agree that the music is an experience.
We all have varying, but limited, amounts of time, money, shelf space, and listening energy, and each of us need to make our own decisions on how to invest those. My decisions are different than yours, but I don't know that I am therefore a "lazy listener" with "lazy results". I also experienced lo-fi Bird bootlegs and stuff like that (we're basically the same age, got the bug for the music at basically the same time), and decided not to go there moving forward except for certain selected cases (such as the Coltrane 1961 Sutherland Lounge recordings) . There's good stuff each of us is never going to hear or re-hear, and we each need to decide what our own parameters for that will be. YMMV, which is fine.